Why Control
Sometimes not asking why can save you some heartache. I realized today that I often use that question to understand people and their experiences. I have always been curious about the lives of others and the way my brain needs to process stories is by trying to delve deeper into their person. "What is it like being you?" Sometimes asking too many questions reveals too much information. I'm a sensitive person and I oversympathize with people, so knowing the details of someone's experiences really gets to me. It's my own fault. Anyway, I feel like when meeting new "potentials," sometimes less is more. When you start dating someone, do you really need to know right away why they broke up with their ex? Why they've dated half the city? Why they believe the things they do? You haven't even built a repoire yet. I think until you can master the art of small talk, you should keep the skeletons in the closet. Why go somewhere that may trigg